Stop the Stuck, Stalled and Stressed Out with Neuroscience-Informed Coaching
- Pam Aks
- 2 days ago
- 4 min read
Updated: 13 minutes ago
Getting unstuck from a mental traffic jam probably feels pretty exciting, right? But let’s be honest. Figuring out how to do it can feel overwhelming. There’s no shortage of advice out there: think positive, set goals, stay motivated. But most of it skips over the part where your brain quietly loops through the same old patterns. Like settling in jobs, relationships, choices, and decisions.
The ones that keep you stuck in those mental traffic jams.
That’s where neuroscience-informed coaching comes in. It’s not a formula or a mindset trick. It’s a way of understanding what’s happening underneath the “hood.” How your brain responds to stress. How it forms habits. How it loops through familiar thoughts. And how you can start experimenting with new ways of thinking.
My relationship with this work didn’t begin in a classroom. It started at the age of 10, with a stack of self-help books and a quiet need to understand why my thoughts kept pulling me into places that didn’t feel good. The ones that made me feel small, less than, not good enough. I didn’t call it neuroscience back then. I just knew I wanted to feel different and think differently.
That curiosity stayed with me and over time, it deepened. When I began coaching that’s when the formal study began. The research. The training. The deeper dive into how our brains work. And suddenly, everything started to click. The patterns I’d been noticing for years had names. The tools I’d been piecing together had science behind them. And the work I was doing personally and with clients started to feel even more grounded.
Neuroscience-informed coaching isn’t just something I offer. It’s how I help people experiment with their own wiring in ways that feel doable, honest, and energizing.
What Is Neuroscience-Informed Coaching?
It’s a way of working with your brain, not against it. This approach blends relatable brain science with practical coaching tools to help you understand your patterns, shift your habits, and make decisions that feel aligned with who you are, not who you think you’re supposed to be.
We look at how your brain processes stress, emotion, and decision-making. We notice what’s automatic. We test what’s possible. And we do it in a way that feels safe, curious, and grounded.
What Makes This Approach Different?
Most coaching focuses on mindset. Neuroscience-informed coaching goes deeper. It looks at the systems behind your mindset. The loops. The habits. The emotional triggers. And it helps you find ways to rewire them so they’re no longer keeping you stuck and stalled out in mental traffic jams. So, you’re able to take your goals and ideas off the paper they’ve been sitting on.
Try These Brain-Friendly Experiments
These aren’t tips. They’re experiments. Each one is designed to help you notice your brain’s patterns in real time and test small shifts to create momentum.
1. Catch Your Brain in the Act Choose a moment when you feel stuck, reactive, or uncertain. Pause and jot down what your brain is saying. Not just the words, but the tone. Is it urgent? Critical? Protective? This isn’t about fixing anything. It’s about noticing the script your brain runs when it’s trying to keep you safe. Call it data collecting so you’re more aware of your brain patterns.
2. Name the Pattern, Not the Problem Think of a situation where you often feel frustrated with yourself. Instead of labeling it as a flaw, describe the pattern. For example: “I tend to say yes before I check in with myself.” This shift helps you move from self-blame to self-awareness.
3. Test a Micro-Shift Pick one small habit that feels doable. Maybe it’s pausing for five seconds before responding to a request. Maybe it’s asking yourself, “Is this mine to carry?” before jumping into a task. Track what happens over a few days. What feels different? What feels familiar? What feels possible?
Why Neuroscience-Informed Coaching Works
This approach doesn’t rely on motivation or mindset alone. It’s grounded in how your brain functions. How it protects you. How it predicts outcomes. How it repeats familiar loops.
Neuroscience-informed coaching helps you:
Spot the patterns that keep you stuck
Interrupt them with curiosity instead of judgment
Build new habits that feel natural, not forced
Make decisions that reflect your values and align with you
Create more resilience for when things get messy
It works because it honors your wiring. It’s not about becoming someone else or pushing harder. It’s about becoming more you.

Neuroscience-informed coaching helps understand brain functions to unlock potential
What You Can Expect When We Work Together
This isn’t scripted or cookie-cutter work. It’s a conversation. We’ll explore your patterns, test new ones, and build tools that fit your life. You’ll learn how your brain works best and how to work with it, not against it.
And rest assured, you’ll get:
A coach who’s lived this and studied it
A space that’s warm, honest, confidential, and nonjudgmental
Tools that are grounded in science and tailored to you
Support that helps you bypass those mental traffic jams so, you’re moving towards what you want most.

Coaching strategies based on brain science help develop new habits
Ready to Get Unstuck from the Mental Traffic Jams?
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop or like you’re living a version of your life that doesn’t quite fit, I get it. I’ve been there. And I’ve built my coaching practice around helping people like you experiment their way out of the stuck and stalled out.
If that sounds like something you’re ready for, I’d love to talk.
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